Preparing Kids for Your Photo Session
I love capturing children just as they are. I don’t ask them to say “cheese” or make them pose stiffly. Instead, I let them take the lead and wait for real moments to happen. A little preparation ahead of time helps make the session relaxed and fun for everyone. Here are a few simple ways to get ready: choose comfortable clothes that your child can move around in, talk with them about what to expect, and gather any favorite snacks, water, or a special toy to bring along. Simple, neutral colors and classic patterns tend to look great in photos, while logos, bright neon colors, or busy prints can be distracting. Planning these small details will help you and your child feel confident and prepared.
Make sure your child is rested and has eaten.
A child who is well-rested and has a full belly is usually happier. Bringing snacks and water is helpful, and we can take short breaks if needed. Sometimes, the best photos happen during these breaks. Dry, non-messy snacks are best for keeping faces clean.
Let your child know what will happen during the session.
It helps if children know in advance that a friendly photographer, Ms. Jen, will be taking their pictures. Try not to surprise them. Some families plan a fun treat afterward, like pizza night or ice cream, so kids have something to look forward to.
Give your child time to get comfortable.
There is no rush during my sessions. My typical sessions last about an hour, which gives children plenty of time to explore and settle in naturally. If a little more time is needed for breaks or snacks, that's absolutely fine. Some of my favorite photos are taken when kids are just running, playing, and being themselves.
Keep the atmosphere calm and relaxed.
Children notice when adults feel stressed or try too hard for the “perfect smile.” The best thing you can do is stay calm and be supportive. It is completely normal for children to have off moments, feel shy, or need a little extra time. I use gentle and patient approaches to help them feel comfortable and ease back into the session. When kids feel relaxed, they naturally settle in.
For family photos, focus on being together.
During family portraits, I often suggest that parents hold their child, talk with them, or share a quiet moment. Real connections always look beautiful in photos.
Bring something your child loves.
A favorite small toy, bubbles, or even a special family member can help bring out natural smiles and laughter. Most importantly, don’t worry if your child doesn’t look at the camera or pose perfectly. Children are wonderful just as they are, and those real moments make the most meaningful photos.
You may be asked to join in for a few photos, as parent-child moments can be among the most genuine and cherished images from the session. If you prefer to step back and let your child explore on their own for individual shots, that is absolutely fine as well. I will always guide you at the session so you know exactly what to expect.